40 for 40: Adventures to go on to ring in my 40s

Today is my 40th birthday.

Today I'm embarking on a new project. 40 things to do while I'm 40. This list extends on my backpack list I wrote about when we went to see the Sharks. Many of these items are San Francisco related and take me through the city in new ways and to things I've always wanted to do. Some are general and allow for some spontaneity around the event and how it takes place. It's giving scavenger hunt in some places.

More importantly, these are almost all items I will do with my friends and family. I intend to share this project with everyone and select things to cross off with my best friends. Adventures await! 

This project, while filled with fun things to do, is more than a lark. It's about intentionally connecting and grounding myself in the present. It's about not letting time pass me by. My kids are (or will be soon!) young teenagers this year. Time with them is fleeting and while I'm responsible to prepare them for adulthood. I know that to do this in a healthy way, I need to continue to develop and grow as well. Parents will know, this is harder than it looks. 

Can finally biking across the golden gate bridge help me achieve these goals? We're gonna find out. 

Here's the list. 
Have a suggestion? Send it my way. 

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